This past Wednesday, after a great lunch with my family, I eagerly arrived at the airport 2-hours before my plane departed for Newark, NJ with a connecting flight to Glasgow, Scotland that evening. My bags were packed and I was pumped.
This was a dream coming true. I have traveled extensively thru the US, many times to Mexico, to Ecuador, and to 3-provinces of Canada. Travel to the rest of the world had been elusive but definitely my heart's desire.
I boarded the plane and my seatbelt was snug and I had a newspaper and a book in hand. Two nice college students were sitting next to me (skinny ones which always help when squeezed into airplane seats!). It was 3:30 PM and the adventure was about to begin.
Little did I know where this adventure would wind and how long a 12-hour trip could be extended. The flight was scheduled to leave at 4:05 that afternoon but minutes before taxing out to take off we were asked to de-board the plane because of a delayed take-off. No problem. We re-boarded the plane at 5:30 p.m. and left 30-minutes later.
The trip was great and we even made up about 30-minutes of time. We circled around Newark for about 30-minutes and then the captain's voice came over the sound system. There would be about a 30-minute delay. No problem. I could still make my flight out to Scotland.
90-minutes later we were headed to the Maryland airport a 3-hour car ride south of Newark. Scotland, we have a problem! We landed at the Maryland airport at around midnight and stayed on the tarmac for about 1-hour. I was 10-hours into my 12-hour trip to Scotland and had not even made it to Newark!
The announcement came in that we were going to be disembarked and that we needed to pick up our luggage from the conveyor belts. In the mass confusion it was decided that we would be bussed to Newark (that is how I know it is a 3-hour drive!). The busses were not nice big Greyhound busses but small shuttle busses. I think about 10-pounds were jiggled off on that ride.
I assumed the best of Continental. Certainly they would have a representative to meet us at Newark and to get us on the next flight out to our destinations. I was wrong. Really very wrong as they dumped us off at the front of the airport without an 'I'm sorry' or 'have a great day'.
I left Houston Wednesday at 6:00 PM and now it was Thursday at 8:00 AM—after 3-hours in line I had finally found out that I was not getting out of Newark until Friday night. I asked for a connecting flight to anywhere around Scotland but was especially keen on flying into London where I could take an all day train to Glasgow. No luck (blessedly). With no sleep and nowhere to go I had to book a hotel for Thursday night.
Thankfully, with Kresha and Zeke's web help, I found a great hotel for what was a very good price in that area. I walked in at 9:00 AM and told the girl "Sheena, if you have a room I can check into right now you'll be my best friend in New Jersey." She did not crack a smile but kept clicking on her keyboard. Finally, "Mr. Herron, it looks like I'm going to be your best friend." Still no smile but I knew God was smiling down on me.
The hotel had a great indoor pool and hot tub, was all suites, and had a decent restaurant. I napped and then got on the phone to Continental. All of my flights had been cancelled, including the return flight from Scotland.
The hotel gave me a late check out but I was still at the airport 6-hours before boarding. And guess what? The flight was delayed for just over an hour.
We boarded and I arrived in Glasgow, Scotland about 10:00 AM Saturday morning; almost 3-full days since I left Houston—the longest 12-hour trip of my life.
What a journey. But I tell you all those details to share what God was doing inside me the entire time.
I just kept plugging forward determined to go to Scotland. My choices were to return to Houston (I had almost 3-days to do so) or continue to Scotland. I could turn around because of troubles beyond my control or just simply keep going towards the fulfillment of my dream. When would I ever have the chance again to travel to Scotland with one of my favorite families? When would I have the time slotted to do so? Sounds like the journey doesn't it—we move towards a dream, circumstances put roadblocks in our way, and then we have to make a choice to go forward or to return to where we were.
My attitude was amazing (no bragging intended). I was exhausted staying up basically the entire night but God kept my heart and thoughts clear. I continued to be kind and help people. Remember the two college students? We stuck together on the 3-hour ride and in line for those 3-hours…one had never been out of Louisiana nor had she flown. I was able to joke with the airline employees who had been hated on for the over 200 cancelled flights.
Why? I had a place to go. I had a destination (a destiny) that I was not willing to get my focus off of. Sounds like the journey doesn't it? When we know where we are going and can keep our eyes on that place then nothing will distract us or discourage us.
Remember my attempt (my begging and pleading to the ticket counter) to get to London? They had the bomb scare the day I would have flown into that airport. I would have been diverted again and possibly even further away from my original destination of Scotland.
I was out of the Glasgow airport sometime close after ten Saturday morning. I grabbed a taxi that took me to a train station to catch a train that would take me to Aberdeen. I was exhausted but things went quite well (except the part where I needed to use the 'toilet' at the train station and saw a 20p sign which I took to mean 20-pounds which is about $40 US—more on that later!) and God blessed me with a young Scottish teenager Zeke's age to travel with who was fascinated with this middle aged American.
So, I arrived safely at the train station in Aberdeen and the Reid's (David's parents) house and guess what is on the news? There has been a terrorist attack at the Glasgow Airport just hours after I left.
Sounds like our journey does it not? Lots of diversions, lots of possible accidents waiting to happen, lots of waiting in line, many opportunities to get angry and hurt and bitter, and then of course, lots of terrorist attacks.
But remember, God has a destination for you and your family. You are going places and you are not alone. You are not alone in the tragedies and mistakes and delays in your life. God is with you. I am with you. We are with you. We are with you not just in the sense of you can talk to us but in the reality that we have also made horrible mistakes, taken wrong turns, been asked to leave the plane to our destination, and our dreams have been delayed.
God gets it and so do we. And maybe God so wants us in authentic fellowship and/or community together so that we are not alone on our journey; so that we can not only suffer and hurt and cry together but to laugh and dance and shout together.
That is why I am on this trip with my Red Family. I did not get it at first but now I get a bit of it. I slept in the house David grew up in. I saw where David was born in 1967. In fact, it is now a pretty posh restaurant and it is one of his dad's favorite restaurants (yes, we went). Chris was born down the street. We drove by where Fiona went to pre-school, saw where David and Beth first met, and visited the church this morning where David was first introduced to our Father when he was 16-years old.
Does it get any cooler then that?
David and I met in the worst of times during a church explosion I would not wish on anyone. But, in the midst of the bad we found so much good; the good (maybe the best?) of ourselves and others; a deeper level with Christ and a deeper sense of destination; gifts and tools we never knew we had; a new boldness and strength that is surprising to both; and a brotherhood that extends beyond us two (and prayerfully will continue to influence thousands and thousands more as God moves in and through us) to our family at The Journey, our family at Freedom, our family from old Abundant Life, our family from all the places we have worshipped, our spiritual family universal, and all those family members that do not yet call our Father Dad.
The journey is messy and circumstances often force us to turn back but we just need to say "No, I will not turn away from this dream." Whether it is something like going to Scotland, having a great marriage or family, seeking healing of all sorts, making a mountain of money, or just getting our kids through school it does not really matter. Do not give up the dream and do not give up on living life wildly with others.
God is with you and He has asked us to be with you.